Common Sense Media Review
By Tara McNamara, based on child development research. How do we rate?
age 11+
Festive Farrelly Bros comedy is fiendishly funny; language.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Dear Santa is a Farrelly brothers comedy about an 11-year-old boy (Robert Timothy Smith) with dyslexia who mixes up the letters when addressing his letter to Santa. He mistakenly writes to Satan instead, and Lucifer (Jack Black) responds, offering three wishes. The filmmakers are known for their outrageous, crude humor, and while this one is comparatively tame, it's still edgy for a kids' holiday movie. Satan makes a couple of jokes about pedophilia (creepy uncles) and bestiality ("screw the pooch" as a double entendre), and a kid who's trying to talk to his crush starts talking about cats' nipples. There's bathroom humor, plus language including "crap," "bulls--t," "s--t," and name calling like "dumbass" and "turd breath." There are references to a child's death of a child, and a kid stands up to someone who bullies others—and gets punched for his trouble. Having Satan as the star of a movie about Christmas may be unexpected, but the film celebrates the rewards of integrity, humility, kindness, and putting others' needs before our own. But it does also hinge on the assumption that Santa doesn't exist.
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Language
a lot
Language includes "ass," "bulls--t," "crap," "damn," "dumbass," "fudgenuts," "hell," "shart," "s--t," "stud," "turd," "stupid," and "t-t." Joke that a demon "screwed the pooch." "Oh my God" as an exclamation. Potty humor.
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Violence & Scariness
some
One kid punches another in the face. There's a bit about standing up to those who bully others. Threats involving involving violence are delivered with humor. Images of horned devil and a menacing hamster, also wrapped in humor. References to a tragic accident involving a child, but details aren't disclosed. Joke about relatives who touch young family members inappropriately. Joke about bestiality. Parents squabble.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
some
Part of the plot revolves around an 11-year-old's crush on a classmate; they go on a date. Kiss. Racy jokes. Teacher asks student about what part of another student's body he's "ogling." Reference to cats' nipples.
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Products & Purchases
a little
Satan drives a Tesla. Humorous reference to Uber Eats. Post Malone and his music are positively and heavily featured. Satan shows the life someone can have with him by their side, with images of a kid driving fast in a fancy car, gambling, and rolling around in cash.
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Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
a little
Adults drink wine. A kid plays beer pong, but it's about the game, not the drinking. Character balks at a comment made by a child, saying, "Kid, are you high?"
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Positive Messages
some
Themes of family, integrity, and giving to others/putting their needs before your own.
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Positive Role Models
some
Liam is a good kid who accidentally makes a deal with the devil—he does try out some "bad" behavior like telling a teacher off and sneaking out of the house, but ultimately, his integrity shines through. Best friend Gibby is supportive, and crush Emma is kind and inclusive.
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Diverse Representations
a little
The plot is set in motion by a main character's dyslexia, which is played more for humor (he mixes up "Santa" and "Satan") than treated seriously as a disability. Characters have a range of body types/sizes. The story revolves around a White family; main kid character Liam's best friend, Gibby, is Black, and his crush, Emma, is played by Chinese-Japanese American actor Kai Cech. Students seen in the background are a diverse mix of races and genders.
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- Parents say (5)
- Kids say (1)
age 14+
Based on 5 parent reviews
MKACNM Adult
November 28, 2024
age 18+
Upsetting and Unsettling
Spoiler: It is revealed later in the film that the main character’s brother tied tragically. He uses his final wish with the Jack black fake Satan to bring his brother back to life and it works. It is pretty jarring and upsetting to be honest to see a child being able to wish their brother back to life. Not a silly funny movie at all. And no Christmas magic or good lessons. Very disturbing and unsettling. We are a pretty chill family when it comes to media. This is my first review because it was so upsetting and just off putting.
ailimonahan Parent of 12 and 15-year-old
November 28, 2024
age 13+
It was ok until it wasn’t.
We were excited to sit down and watch this as a family (with a teen and tween) as we all love Jack Black. We were enjoying the cringy middle school humor until there was a joke about child molestation by a family member. That ended it for us immediately.
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What's the Story?
When 11-year-old Liam (Robert Timothy Smith), who's dyslexic, writes to Santa, he makes a crucial misspelling in the address, and the letter isn't delivered as expected. And when a jolly fat man with a devilish smile (Jack Black) shows up and gives Liam three wishes, it isn't exactly what the tween had in mind. Can Liam deliver a wonderful holiday for everyone without losing his soul? Post Malone co-stars as himself. (Note: Two characters' storylines wrap up in a mid-credits scene.)
Is It Any Good?
Our review:
Parents say (5):
Kids say (1):
St. Nick never makes an appearance in this comedy, but he's still able to give us a ha-ha-happy ho-ho-holiday through a bwah-ha-ha performance by Jack Black. The star's childlike charisma and bold performance style makes him a truly inspired casting choice as a demon pretending to be Kris Kringle. Sure, the very concept of Dear Santa feels pretty inappropriate for Christmas, but that's exactly the kind of humor the Farrelly brothers deal in. And, just like their most famous film, Dumb and Dumber, many of the laughs in Dear Santa come from moments that feel wrong somehow—like the devil giving someone their due through digestion issues.
Remarkably, director Bobby Farrelly does manage to walk the line, hovering his toe over iffy content but never quite touching low ground. Yes, this is a movie about a kid who makes a deal with the devil, but the message is really about the value of keeping your integrity and giving to others over the holidays. The ending is sweet, even though Satan delivers a Christmas gift that leaves this realm (and may leave some viewers shaking their head). But until that final moment, the Farrellys hijack the sleigh and takes us on a hilarious holiday joyride.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the hallmarks of a holiday film. How does Dear Santa play into (and steers away from) them?
The Farrelly brothers are known for making viewers laugh at things that might seem out of bounds. Was there anything in Dear Santa that felt like it shouldn't be used for humor?
The Farrelly brothers have been making movies together for decades. Kids: If you have a sibling, what activities or business do you think you could do together once you're adults?
What are integrity and humility, and why are these important character strengths? How does the movie show the value of behaving with these traits, even when some people don't?
How was Post Malone used throughout the film? Why do you think he was included? Did it enhance or diminish how you feel about him?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : November 25, 2024
- Cast : Jack Black, Robert Timothy Smith, Jaden Carson Baker, Post Malone
- Director : Bobby Farrelly
- Studio : Paramount+
- Genre : Comedy
- Topics : Holidays
- Run time : 103 minutes
- MPAA rating : PG-13
- MPAA explanation : some language and suggestive material
- Last updated : November 28, 2024
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